How do we begin to communicate with each other? I have been reading a lot about self-awareness, and I have a lot of ideas about how we can get along with each other.
People have a tendency to look at each other and think they know everything about each other. It’s easy to do this when we are in our head, but it’s rarely good when we are interacting with each other. Even though we are thinking about the same things, our brains are still working in different order. This can create communication issues. One of the biggest communication issues people have is when they think they know each other, but they really don’t.
Communication is a part of our lives that we should always strive to have. We need to have some form of communication, either verbal or written. Even though we are often good at communication, it is good to always strive to have these types of conversations. The thing is, we tend to not realize when we are not communicating well. For example, it can be very easy for us to not say “I love you” when we are talking about a specific person.
This is exactly the case with pull communication. We are often so caught up in what we want that we fail to communicate properly. When we fail to communicate properly, our communication suffers. When we constantly communicate to the point where we can’t communicate at all, we get stuck in a rut. We may forget what we had intended to say. This can happen when we are working on a project or if we are planning an event.
For example, imagine you want to do something fun with your friends but you aren’t very good at making sure you are talking to the right person when you are talking to them. This could cause you to miss out on making that fun event happen. One way to avoid this is to keep track of the people you are talking to and making sure that you are talking to them. This way you don’t forget them and you don’t miss out on making a connection.
Our goal in getting things done is to make sure that people know what they are talking about, and can understand what they are talking about. We are working on that goal here too.
For the most part, we have a strong tendency to forget things. When we are distracted by something, we forget it. When we don’t think it is important to remember it, we forget it. And, of course, we do it when it is important. We can’t forget it if we don’t want to.
We are working to eradicate this tendency to forget and make sure that we get it just right. One of the ways we do this is by using pull communication. Basically, we are using the ability to “pull” something in a sentence or a sentence fragment. For instance, if you ask me what to say, i can pull you into that thought. When you ask me what to do, i can pull you into that thought.
Pull communication is a simple, yet extremely useful tool for keeping ourselves from forgetting what we said or did. For example, as I type this, I am watching a video of some of the people I know at work and I see a guy say, “Hey, I forgot the meeting this morning and I am late for it.” And I respond, “Well, you don’t have to worry about that. You can just call in.
If you want to get away from it all, you can do so in a few simple steps.