So, we’ve been talking about that “fantasy” idea of “knowing your fate” for years now. As we’ve grown into younger, more independent, and more independent-minded adults, we’ve all become more aware of how we’re making our decisions.
“I think I know my fate,” we often say. As we were saying earlier, our fate is determined by our actions. So, if we want to change something we know how to do, we have to start doing it in order to affect change to our lives.
A lot of the time we dont even realize we are making choices that affect our lives until we are forced to make those choices. But it doesn’t have to be that way. We can start making those changes by simply learning to make our own decisions. The best way to do this is to change the way we think about our decisions. We can start by recognizing when we have made a mistake. We can then start to ask ourselves if we are making the right choices.
Ok, first of all, don’t just make the mistake of thinking you are making the right choices. Instead, ask yourself if you are making the best choices. And if you are, then you will realize that you have made the right decisions.
The first step is just recognizing that you’ve made a mistake. A mistake is anything that takes us off track. It could be something as simple as choosing not to go to the gym, or getting into a fight with our boss. We can never be 100% sure that we are doing the right thing. This is the part that gets people most confused about what to do. The last thing we want to do is make a mistake.
This problem is exactly why it’s so important that we stop and ask ourselves if our decisions were the right ones. When you start to question your decisions, even if you’re sure that they were the right ones, it can lead to paralysis. To avoid paralysis, ask yourself these questions.
We often think that if we’re doing something right, it must be the right thing, but in reality we can’t always be sure. When we say that we’re doing something right, we are still doing something wrong. This is the reason why it’s important to have a plan. Like other aspects of life we can plan for, we can also plan for how we will accomplish a goal.
Its important to have a plan. If you don’t, you can find yourself in a situation where you can’t do anything but say, “I’m going to do this,” and then get back to the same old “this is how I’m going to do it” routine. We all have our “when” and “why”, but we rarely have a “how.
One of the most important aspects of planning is identifying what you want to accomplish. Most people are afraid of planning, saying, well I don’t know what I want to do, but I’ll figure it out. But how do you know what you want to do? Thats what the planning is. One of the first steps to learning to plan, is recognizing that your goals are not that different from the goals of other people.